Parents who hate parenting..boleh ke jd camtu?

hmmm..aku suka bkk website yahoo-shine. bcoz byk artikel2 menarik yg boleh dijadikan tips and guide utk kehidupan seharian. so came across this article : parents who hate parenting : the latest trend? and mcm terasa la pulak dgn title artikel tuhh..uwaaaa!!

i bet sume working mothers that always juggling with their careers and family will find this situation common sometimes when everything seems like stuck up and 24-hrs a day is not enough to do all those routine and get enough rest at the end of the day..sape2 yg ada maid mungkin terkecuali by the way.

mmg ye..harus diakui parenting mmg meletihkan lg2 kalo ank kecik dh 2 ke 3 ke at least kn. dan biasanya kaum ibu 60-70% akan menggalas tanggungjawab parenting tersebut compare to kaum bapa. blm msk lg bab2 houseworks yg hr2 sentiasa ada je sampaikan sibuk jg ank2 n suami, diri sndiri pn x terurus. agak jeles la jugak bila kaum bapa boleh je kluar main bola dgn member2, lepak2 kedai mamak sbg contoh, tp kaum ibu pulak bz manjang dekat rumah. nk kluar dgn girlfriends pn xde masa. nk pi facial ke spa jauh sekali. mcm tula yg dirasakn skali skala bila dh terkena hasutan setan. buat apa pun dh x ikhlas...astaghfirullahalazim.

walaupn en.hubby ringan tulang kalo mintak tolong sama2 share the housework and parenting duties, tp sebagai insan biasa kdg2 tu mmg terasa nk escape sekejap dr routine parenting (bukannya benci tp penat, letih dan yg penting nk rehat yg secukupnya..). may i myself can practice these tips and benefit from it..who knows, right??

1. Give yourself a break—you don't need to be so hard on yourself.
2. Just say no! What are your real priorities?
3. Take time to write it down. Journaling will bring clarity to your life. ( sbg cth:..blogging..hehe)
4. Slow down and savor living in the moment.
5. Plug into your kids so you can really connect with them.
6. Don't forget about your husband—intimacy is life-affirming!
7. Reach out beyond your family. It will enrich everyone.
8. Make your physical and mental health a priority.
9. Is more always better?  Simplify everything.
10. Be a little selfish—you deserve it, and it will make you a better mother.

credit to article: Parents who hate parenting : the latest trend? by Lylah M.Alphonse on Yahoo - Shine

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/parenting/parents-who-hate-parenting-the-latest-trend-2466533/

hope this article sedikit sebanyak dpt membantu ibu2 di luar sana improve parenting skill masing2

makan angin @ lumut

wahhh..taula br buat blog. hr2 nk update..hehe.yela, tgh semangat nihh!!

saje nk cite psl vacay hr tu time cuti skolah..ngam2 plak time tu en.hubby ada workshop-friday, saturday & sunday. dkt je..lumut tp ok la sbb penginapan sume ditanggung beres oleh company en. hubby. excited x hengat sbb lama dh x mkn angin tau..berkurun rasanye. at least leh bwk bdk2 kesygan ku jalan2, xde la asyik dok rmh je cuti skolah ni...x berkembang minda diaorg.

lg 1 sgt excited sbb this vacay marked our 7 years journey of our marriage..maksudnye dh 7 thn tak jejak kn kaki dkt lumut n p.pangkor yg menjadi destinasi honeymoon kami dulu..ngeh3. byk dh perubahan..jeti lumut pn dh cantik..kitaorg pegi ikut bidor-teluk intan sbb bos bgtau ikut ctu lg dkt..3 jam je katanya. alhamdulillah mmg 3 jam pn dh sampai ke Orient Star Hotel dkt Lumut. lps check-in n mkn kfc for dinner yg smpt beli kat pekan Lumut , hubby terus ke Workshop nye..dh tertinggal dh sbnrnye satu sesi ptg gara2 tunggu nadhirah hbs skolah kul 4 ptg. tinggal la aku dgn GBS (geng buat sepah...huhuhu) dlm bilik hotel lyn tv.

Esoknya....boringggg!!byk spent masa dlm bilik je...sib baik ada disney channel. dh kul 10 lebih tu ajak ank2 turun. rupa-rupanya mmg depan pantai je hotel ni w/pn pantai x cantik tp byk pokok2 yg meredupkan cuaca pns time tu. boleh la duduk2 menenangkn pikiran jap sambil tgk laut yg terbentang luas..fuhhh!! kasi release sume stress. at last kul 2.00pm pn tiba jadi spt yg dijanjikan dlm agenda workshop tu all of us were heading our way to pulau pangkor..jln kaki je 5 minit dari hotel ke jeti lumut. wahh! very convenience lah this hotel.disebabkn musim cuti skolah trpksa la beratur pnjg menunggu ketibaan feri. sib baik feri dtg serentak sampai 3 bijik so sume yg beratur pnjg td bolehla terus naik.

sbnrnye ms honeymoon dl ada pengalaman pahit naik feri ke pangkor. sbb 1st time manala tau kn feri punye 1st stop bkn jeti pangkor tp kg nelayan je. kitaorg punye la x tau sbb xde announcement, trn ctu terpinga2 sbb xde transport pn nk ke pekan. tanye2 org br la tau dh slh trn so trpaksala tunggu next feri utk ke jeti pangkor. tp kali ni x kn slh lg sbb dh tau..hehe.

so sampai pangkor AJK workshop terus sewa teksi van utk bwk kitaorg sume ni peserta bengkel n family (mana2 yg bwk family..) round satu pulau. kalo nk stay mmg lg best kalo sewa sendiri keta or motor je. kalo gi berdua lg jimat sewa motor je sbb pangkor bkn beso sgt pn..jln pn sempit2 je. xde guna cite byk2 sbb i bet ramai yg dh sampai lumut dgn pangkor kn..layan jela gmbr2 kitaorg ni..

p/s: lg satu..rege hasil2 laut dkt pangkor lebih kurg sama je dgn yg dekat lumut cuma mungkin sesetgh tpt tu kat pangkor lg best rasa keropok udang @ sotong nye tp dgn rege yg lebih mahal.

about me...

i know i blm ada follower and mungkin x kn ada follower pn..hehe. sbb nye blog ni pn bkn diadakan dgn niat utk jadi glamer @ yg sewaktu dgn nye pn. just nk luahkan apa saja yg ada diminda ni melalui penulisan sbb dr zaman muda belia lg mmg suka meluahkn perasaan (chewahhh....!) dlm bentuk penulisan.

cumanya dulu mn ada facebook mana ada twitter and mana ada blog pon...diary jerrr. so this post is just another intro about me and my current life.

i'm currently working at civil n structiral consulting firm for almost 9 years..lama kn. i sometimes hate my work especially time workload yg byk tuuu. and terutamanya kalo kena gi meeting x kirala jauh ke dkt ke. tp nk buat mcm mane kn...currently this field is the only thing i know how to do it...haisyyy! demi sesuap nasik kenala membanting tulang 4 kerat ni, x kn nk hrpkan hubby je especially bab2 SHOPPING knnnnn...

i'm married to my own best friend dr school years lg..in fact we've known each other from standard 1..tp time skolah xde perasaan pon..hehe.we have one lovely daughter, nadhirah (7 years)..sons, aqil (5 years) and ashif (3 years). nadhirah is schooling at Sekolah Integrasi As-Syakirin, Shah Alam..aqil dkt Tabika Kemas SS6 since i'm working in that area...ashif dkt bbsitter dkt2 ctu jgk. bbsitter tu pn dh lama jg ank2 sejak nadhirah umo 4 bln lg...baby on the way after ashif???...nope, i dont think so. ingt nk stop dh memikirkan ekonomi skrg yg cukp2 mkn je ni...tp kalo dh rezeki terima je dgn hati terbuka...insyaAllah rezeki lain pn bertambah2 jugak.

minat biznes n kdg2 kalo blk kelantan mesti ada bwk kain2 n tudung terbaru dr sana jual dkt member2. dulu2 gak time hubby kena outstation ke jakarta ada jgk biznes kain dr sana. tp dh lama dh x biznes mcm tu. skrg adala sket2 buat biznes kerongsang klasik jenama paulini..nnt i buat satu post psl tu..sape yg bminat leh la order.

ok..itu saje buat masa ni..till next time.. caucincau!!

my 1st post

Finally on 21st March 2011 at 0945 hrs i've managed to create my own blog. that was simple though, never thought it would be as easy as eating a piece of delicious and creamy chocolate cake minus that i wasn't creative enough to think and come out with a nicer blog title.

Never mind the title..or i would take a year to think a nice name. well..im a blogger now..peace!!